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Post by purpleangel on May 26, 2009 22:15:11 GMT 1
Now thats me put on the spot. . . Only joking.
I have noticed over the last while that most users turn to this site when needing guidance. Some are having trouble in relationships, family, work. Some feel inadequate due to low self esteem and very little confidence. And some just want a friend to talk to.
For whatever reason, and we all have different ones, we are here.
I am not an expert on this sort of thing but I have been through a lot in my time and have come out the other side and I would like to help others do the same. So I had a chat with Mary Jac and offered to run a sort of agony aunt column.
If anyone wants to chat about absolutely anything I am here for you all. No matter how large or small you may think your problem is. And dont think any of you can shock me. There is nothing I havent seen or been through.
And of course if you just want a friend - I am here for that too.
I really hope this will help you all and I am here whenever you want. In the mean time, you all take care.
Love and Light,
Lucy xxx
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Post by mia on May 26, 2009 23:03:14 GMT 1
That's a very kind and thoughtful idea.
Much love and hugs to you Lucy ((hugs))
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Post by dREaMeR on May 27, 2009 6:47:50 GMT 1
this is a brilliant idea..to have a forum who can really splash their emotions directly here... -- it seems that i am the person who will always be here... despite of my sad experiences...and very painful heartaches..i believe that i have a tough soul..that makes me stronger and keep myself going... i know i will overcome these things... see yah  |
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Post by purpleangel on May 27, 2009 9:19:26 GMT 1
Thank you Mia and Dreamer.
I do hope I can help people with their troubles.
Dreamer you are strong and you have a good head and heart - you know what is right and you are strong enough to stick with your descision.
I am always here.
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Post by admin on May 30, 2009 9:17:57 GMT 1
hiya
i think this is a great idea, and i am sure lucy will help everyone that she can
mj
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Post by dREaMeR on May 31, 2009 13:53:58 GMT 1
hi lucy...can i be the first one to open up my confusions here?? ---can you please define me what really love means to you?? ok here's mine: LOVE is: undeniable unexplainable something that really matters me most can wait can swept me away something that makes me feel vulnereable --- haaaay... i am someone that really can't find it..  hope someday... somehow.. |
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Post by purpleangel on Jul 5, 2009 10:22:53 GMT 1
Hi Dreamer, I hope you have been keeping well since we last spoke.
Love: I was going through my whole life not knowing what real love is. It wasnt until I met my Fiancé that I discovered the true feeling of what it is like to be loved.
But the truth is, love is whatever the individual person themselves feels that it is. Everyone is different and feels differently. The only way I can describe love is the way it is for me.
Love for me is knowing that I dont have to know where my partner is every second of the day to feel that he is there. Being so connected to someone that all I have to do is think of him and he is there.
being with him and knowing that the word LOVE is nowhere near strong enough to show the feeling between us.
There is no right or wrong way to feel or show true love. There is only your way as in what is right for and acceptable by you.
I hope this helps.
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Post by l on Jul 9, 2009 16:27:22 GMT 1
My husband has just left me with two young children for another woman. He says he loves her and wants to be with her. He thinks this is the right decision for us at the moment. I have been asking the angels for guidance and praying for him to come back but it doesn't look like he is going to. I am absolutely devasted as are my children. He was our life. Is there any angel I can ask that can help me here (asking for him to come back to us). Thank you. L
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Post by colddesert on Jul 9, 2009 19:20:59 GMT 1
My husband has just left me with two young children for another woman. He says he loves her and wants to be with her. He thinks this is the right decision for us at the moment. I have been asking the angels for guidance and praying for him to come back but it doesn't look like he is going to. I am absolutely devasted as are my children. He was our life. Is there any angel I can ask that can help me here (asking for him to come back to us). Thank you. L Have some Karma L  You can ask upon Raphael as he will help the healing process. |
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Post by purpleangel on Jul 19, 2009 10:55:57 GMT 1
Hello L,
I am sorry I havent been here for you. I hope you are feeling ok. It is terrible when something like this happens to us.
I know at the moment you are feeling like your whole world has been ripped apart and that you have been living a lie.
You need to know that you are not the cause of any of this no matter how you feel or are made to feel.
Trust that your angels are there with you comforting you and looking after you and your children. They are listening to you but sometimes our angels may not answer us in the way we want them to. It does not mean the are not answering us.
They wont guide you to anything that will hurt you further. Even when these bad things happen it is always for a very good reason and to protect us from a worse fate.
A few years back I lost my marriage, then my business and then my home all in the space of six months. I was devastated. I though my world was over, I had four children to support.
Now at this stage my life has completely turned around. My angels guided me through every step and more importantly I started listening to them for a change.
I realised they had been sending me signs for ages before then but the stubborn person that I am just bulldozed through anyway.
There were signs before my marriage that it wasnt right for me but I did it anyway and before I opened my business there were signs too that it was not right for me at the time. I went ahead anyhow. I dont regret any of it as I learned the lessons in each situation and they have brought kme to where I am today and I can say I have truly never been happier.
Archangel Raphael is our healing angel and he will truly help you through this terrible time.
We all have our own guardian angel and many many more angels around us everyday that are listening to us and helping us even if we think they are not.
You dont have to know there names, they will still efore you do this put on some soft instrumental music, meditation or whatever you have. Angels love music. Light some candles around the room you are in. Now sit in that comfy seat with both your feet firmly on the ground in front of you.
Close your eyes and let yourself fall into the music. Breathe in deeply through your nose and out for the same length of time through your mouth. As you are doing this clear your mind of all your day to day thoughts and start to think of your angels. Talk to them, tell them how you feel and ask them for their help. Thank them for being there for you and trust that they are. Even if you only have ten minutes for this it will still do you some good.
I know when I do it I feel all light and happy when I open my eyes. It took a few times doing it though for it to happen that way for me.
So if you dont feel it did anything for you the first time or even the second, dont give up, try again. The more we have on our minds the harder it is for us to clear them.
Dont give up hope, Im here for a chat anytime and if there is anything on your mind that you dont want to put out public you are more than welcome to send me a private message anytime.
Grá agus Solas,
Lucy xxx
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